An Audience of 1

  It has been a very long time since I blogged! I’ve missed writing! I normally have much to say! It’s time! A year ago after a testing 4 year season of unemployment, I became a qualified tour guide with the South African Tourist department, registered to guide in the Western Cape Province. The classes, required […]

A Beautiful dream…and story

A Beautiful dream…and story! Have you stopped dreaming, believing, hoping, desiring? All of us at some stage seemingly reach a place where this can happen. Tough situations, letdowns, disappointments overtake us, and frankly, life just seems to fall short of what we had hoped for. “Sue’s dream house” is a ‘beacon of light story’ in […]

10 Lessons from 30 years of remarriage

10 Lessons from 30 years of remarriage stems from the rather unusual situation of marriage, divorce and remarriage to my wife within 7 years of our initial marriage.Yep…I know…huh???…and today  (as I write) we celebrate 30 years of remarriage. Our story can be found in my book An Arrested Heart available through my website. This blog is written, not only for […]

7 things to do to do when you feeling blue.

    We all have them….those days where you just wake up feeling Blue….Monday seems to be the day that takes the wrap in the main…..but any day could just herald in a profusion of negative thoughts, sadness or YUK feelings. It’s not always a negative night before or dream that brings it on, but the fact is […]

7 responses to your own flawed decision

Some people are just born ‘decision makers” and seem to make decisions swiftly and intently, without (in your opinion anyway), consideration of all the necessary points involved. Others are more thoughtful, pondering and measured in making decisions. Now I’m not trying to compare intelligence, swiftness, or correctness of either of the 2 groups. I can however, write […]

A reason to live

When we come into this world, the thought of having ‘A reason to live” obviously isn’t way up there compared to say……. “Hey what happened to that warm dark place I was having so much fun and peace in?” or “Man its bright out here…who turned on the headlights?”…or maybe even… “Okay…I wonder if I […]